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1.26.2021

2021 Garden Plans

 As it snows right now, all I can think about is my garden.

I ordered a garden arch to go over our front sidewalk, but Amazon sent me two - so I think what I'm going to do is set it up in the backyard so it leads into the back garden by the composter and flowers back there.

Last year no one helped with the veggie garden and barely anyone volunteered to help with anything actually. So this year I'm not going to start veggie seeds - instead I'm going to focus on flowers and herbs. I'll put in a few veggies here and there but I'm not going to do anything big this year besides tearing up more grass (well, putting down cardboard over it, really) and transform more front yard to pollinator habitat. And same with the backyard.

For the sandbox - it has a hole in it, so I'm going to just put the sand in the garden and the dog and Quentin can just dig in the garden. I'll find a large bin to keep the toys in that can stay outside year round. I'll keep that closer to the house or maybe I'll just put it by the fence. Not sure - I'm going to have a ton of hostas to move this year too and split! I'm going to move all the ones I need to split to the north side of the house and take up more rocks (move the rocks out to a friend's house because they need gravel for their driveway). 

There's so much to think about! I'm so excited to have our outdoor space again. 

Book Review: The Burning God by R.F. Kuang

 


I was lucky enough to get a free copy in the spring of 2020 - however, I'm just now getting around to reading it. I wish I had started it much sooner because I flew through the first two books in the series.

This third is LONG. I googled to see if any pages were cut - and many pages were cut from this edition for the final edition. I didn't mind the length much, though if this hadn't been so good to read, I'm not sure I would remember all the events from the first few pages all the way to the end. Also, because there are many, many characters, it usually takes me a few chapters to remember who everyone is, their back story, etc... This third book just plows right into the story and keeps moving. Not much backstory is mentioned other than the story of the three shamans that are linked together (we see all three of these characters come together too! But that's closer to the end and you have to keep reading to find out Rin's journey to get them together).

The Burning God also gets a little overdone in the war aspect. As in Rin's character doesn't exactly move past the teenage brain into realizing the enormity of her decisions for burning through an entire country. However, her character is one to just do what her god wants to do - which is burn everything. She wants to destroy but completely forgets that her people need to recover too. They need food to live, shelter, education. The people of her country need to live a "normal" life for awhile to be able to be a prosperous country. When she goes back to the south region, she realizes that they have a treasure trove of poppy, which can make her money and lots of it. Instead of thinking things through and making a plan, she immediately wants to return to war - by selling all the poppy. And the people burn the poppy fields. They have realized that she craves war, and that she has no idea how they've lived or what they need to survive. They've put an end to her means. 

Also, once she sees the New City with the Hesperians to save Kitay, it hasn't quite hit her that old school war techniques and shamans are probably no match for the lifestyle that the Hesperians live - once people see the clean city and aren't stepping in puddles of shit, they seem happier to be occupied. However, Rin just gets Kitay and they continue on with conquering the South and finding Nezha to defeat him. One thing that stands out in this written scene is that it's absolutely the west takes over the east. Gone are the old ways, and now in are the new modern ways of life - the author definitely taking this idea from real world wars. It's very sad to read in the book (and also in life too). The Hesperians feel their way of life is the better way of life. They also feel their race is better than Rin's. The whole book takes on race, skin color, class, and more. The author does an amazing job of pointing out all the differences and making the reader actually think about what is going on.

 With this being the last in the trilogy, I'm so happy the author included a map so I could follow along with where these cities are in the whole of the book. I wish it was labelled a little more - such as where each character is from and where the armies had their skirmishes and large battles.

I really love to read YA fiction and trilogies, this one is pretty spectacular. I highly recommend reading The Poppy War trilogy, it's long, but it's definitely worth it!

1.14.2021

Girl Can Sew


After a terrible December (thanks, Covid), we're finally back to somewhat of a normal schedule but not really...because what exactly is normal these days??? I'm not sure anymore.

But The Monkey has wanted to learn how to sew since this past summer when I was busy making hundreds of masks. So I bought her a hand sewing book to learn the basics and learn how to not poke herself with a needle (she drew blood multiple times but carried on!). And then she still desperately wanted to learn how to machine sew. So I ended up buying her The Sewing School 2: Machine Sewing book for kids - it had a few projects that I was sure The Monkey could tackle with little supervision, but mostly me hovering over the machine making sure she wasn't going to break my machine. 


With her first project she learned a very important lesson: read through the instructions VERY carefully. She didn't read them all (I don't read the instructions for her DIY stuff because I think it's important for kids to learn skills by themselves so that they grow up to be competent and skilled adults, independence is a big skill to learn and this also teaches work ethic and to be proud of the things that you do on your own, so parenting moment included in learning how to sew). The Monkey ended up ripping up a whole project because she missed an important step - marking ears on a stuffy, which can't be done after you've sewn the whole thing inside out. She also realized she started/stopped at the wrong side.


I gave her a few tips and tricks for starting/stopping, which way to pull a finished item so she can cut the threads with the thread cutter on the machine and how to use a chopstick to push out corners in projects.

After she finally got her first project CORRECT, the girl is addicted to using the machine and she absolutely loves it. I'm going to have to come up with a few more Pinterest sewing projects for her to do on her own, with little help from me (other than saying, "BE GENTLE WITH THE PRESSER FOOT!" and also "TURN THE NEEDLE TOWARDS YOU NOT AWAY!"

Onwards we go into a new hobby this year! Hopefully I've inspired her to sew for the rest of her life.